Great Couples Counseling in Salem, VA. Therapy to heal relationships.

Finding a therapist who deals with couples can be an intimidating endeavor. There is the fear of what can be exposed in therapy, whether or not sides will be chosen, and what if the result of therapy is the end of the relationship. In my career dealing with trauma and addiction, I have dealt with some of the most threatening experiences that can happen to a relationship. I welcome the invitation to help you and your partner explore the challenges of your relationship and offer and safe and supportive environment in which all parties can feel supported as they work toward a resolution or a deeper sense of commitment.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

There are two most basic fears of intimacy that we all have: one is fear of abandonment, the other is fear of being taken over, of losing my autonomy. In a relationship, people often become polarized with one clinging and the other seeming distant. With awareness of our fears and how to take care of ourselves and each other, we will bring out the best in each other. Everyone knows how to speak and listen, right? Not so. The most difficult skills to learn are to speak self-responsibly about your own experience and to truly listen and understand the other person's experience even when you don't like it. To learn these skills enables love. I can help.

Our team of therapists can help you face your specific relationship issues as a couple and tailor a treatment plan specifically for you. Our team of counselors come from a wide variety of backgrounds, so we're confident we can find you help that's best suited for your unique challenges and goals. Working with us, you'll get results. Please don't wait, we're ready to help you today.

I do a lot of work with couples, whether they are married or not. Couples often need help dealing with conflict and making their communication more clear. Many times mates will take comments or relationship issues too personally. Help comes in the form of learning to be more clear and assertive in relating to others. You can discover how to take responsibility for your side of the relationship.