Family Counseling Services in Lewisburg, TN.

Brian approaches hurting relationships with great hope, based on a knowledge of the ways to intervene with couples and families that have been found to be most effective. Beyond mere behavioral training and communication techniques, he uses the principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy to go deeper into the core of clients' hurts, fears, desires, and hopes.

As a marriage & family therapist for 30 years I've helped many individuals & couples deal with complex issues and strained relationships with: * parents * in-laws * siblings * teenage children * adult children Issues may include: * resolving conflict * reaching forgiveness and rebuilding trust * negotiating differences and different expectations * setting healthy boundaries

People do not exist in a vacuum. They are part of a family system. Whether that system is traditional, non-traditional, blended or any number of other descriptions, the individual is impacted by the family system and the system is impacted by the individual. As a result, the best method of addressing issues is with as much of the family system as possible. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) my education and experience is focused on the family system. Let’s work together on your families concerns.

There is not one template to tell any family exactly how to fix their problems. Families get healthier as individuals in the family become healthier, and visa versa. Sometimes personality conflicts exist that can be improved by simply understanding the enormous differences in how varying personality types interpret life and events.. Other times there are much deeper issues ranging from character disorders, neurosis, personality disorders, past abuse, etc. While the dynamics can sometimes feel daunting, a mood of compassion and hope from a skilled therapist can set the tone for improvement in what might have seemed a hopeless situation.

Family therapy can make all the difference when you cannot seem to find creative solutions to the elephant in your family room! I like to use different combinations of sessions to make family sessions effective and meaningful. My office is in a home zoned commercial, so the space feels comfortable and not clinical. I use mind mapping and other visual techniques to help everyone see what I see and move to a better place.

Most family therapists inadvertently create more chaos through their well-intentioned efforts to assist a family move through a change process. Why? Brains are inherently deregulated (all of us, may I add) and most talking and dialoguing misses brain-centric problems that need more intensive help. Many times the emotional trauma created by years of solving problems ineffectively can wreak havoc on the brain's parasympathetic nervous system, not ever giving the family a break from flight or fight thinking. Contact us for an innovative neuroscience solution to family dysfunction. Kevin@kevinflemingphd.com or 877-606-6161.