Anger Management and Counselling in Muskoka, ON.

Anger is an emotion like any other and as such we should not seek to run away from it. It is the expression of the emotion rather than the emotion itself that causes problems in peoples lives. Exploring the feelings that are often masked by anger can help individuals to develop a fresh perspective on the emotion itself and effectively learn to resolve situations before they develop into damaging behaviours.

Maybe you are reaching out because your words and actions are affecting those you love. We will work together to address your emotional reactivity so that you can create enough space before your actions so that you can choose a different path. We will explore what is underlying your anger so that we can address the root cause. Anger is a secondary emotion, and we will work to discover the primary emotion that is causing you such difficulties.

Anger is often thought of as a negative emotion, but I like to think of Anger as the part of you that loves you and wants to stand up for you when you’ve experienced something “unfair.” Anger does not always make the best decisions about when to stand up for you, so I work collaboratively with clients to identify and explore how anger shows up in their lives, and to strengthen and develop strategies to minimize the impact it has on living the life you want to live. Book a free consultation to learn more about my approach and explore if we are a good fit.

Our experiences of anger vary greatly. While I don't offer therapy services for anger management, at Psychotherapy Collective, our online clinic, we have many therapists who offer support for clients seeking help with anger. Visit our website to schedule a free 15-minute consultation with a therapist who specializes in anger management https://www.psychotherapycollective.ca/areas-of-focus/anger

There are 3 phases in working with Anger 1.Prevention- Attempts to forestall the very onset of anger. 2. Intervention- Aims to reduce the intensity or the duration of anger that has already ignited. 3. Postvention- Aims to discharge any residual anger. Emotions are regulated by re-experiencing, releasing, or converting them into a safe form. We will not only focus on your cognitions and behaviors as entry points but also focus on the modification of affect (your emotions). Anger is an emotion. To have no room in therapy for the feeling component of this emotion is to deny its very essence, your existence. Gestalt perspective- Expression of anger can be very productive. Let out!

Is anger impacting your relationships or daily life? I’m Simona Ilieva, a Registered Psychotherapist specializing in anger management. Together, we’ll work to understand the root causes of your anger, identify triggers, and develop healthy coping strategies to manage intense emotions. Whether you’re struggling with frustration, irritability, or outbursts, I’m here to help you regain control and foster healthier relationships. Anger doesn’t have to define you. With the right tools, you can transform your anger into positive change and lead a more peaceful, balanced life. Let’s take that step together. Book a free consultation today.