Great Couples Counseling in Okarche, OK. Therapy to heal relationships.

We were made for relationships, but sometimes we can feel alone and have difficulty communicating effectively to those closest to us. Patterns created during childhood can negatively impact our beliefs, perceptions, and relationships as adults. Where we come from is important, but it does not define us. In most cases we can choose to use what we've been through for good and bringing us closer vs. driving us apart. I would like to help you learn new tools and create new habits that can make it possible to enjoy your relationship again.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

One of the most prevaling issues with one or both is to not feel "heard". Much emphasis has to be on the word "feelings". If one or the other has been abused in some way, they are very sensitive to "feelings". The word "being" is a key for stabilization of the relationship. I have done much research on the "Keys to Life" and one of the necessities is to trust. Listening and trusting are probably the glue that holds any relationship together and is foundational. A couple learning their primary function is not about themselves, but the common good of the family unit. After all, what will be your legacy? What will you be known for?

I specialize in Sex and Relationship repair. I can help you explore what you want and develop the communication tools and sexual education needed to cultivate the intimacy you desire. Sexual exploration workshops and retreats for couples are offered here. While we personalize therapy plans to meet the needs of couples; relationship counseling may include the following for everyone: carefully analyzing the roots of your problems, boundary setting, understanding jealousy, building communication skills, setting limits, acceptance, overcoming emotional baggage, overcoming mental health issues, examining the changes necessary for a healthier union.