Anger Management and Counseling in DeLand, FL.

I help clients manage and conquer anger with a number of approaches. I encourage clients to make lifestyle changes to help with anger. I also counsel clients to employ techniques like mindfulness, meditation and breathing techniques to reduce anger. I train clients to improve their communications abilities and use communications strategies. I also help clients develop assertiveness instead of aggressiveness. To the extent anxiety or depression increase anger issues, I address those in therapy.

As a culture, we do not do well with healthy expressions of anger. Often we are raised to suppress it and then we have limited practice at dealing with big emotion. There is a spectrum of healthy aggression- to keep us safe and to maintain boundaries- and rage- our body's strategy for safety. Anger management is about applying the right "dosing" to maintain boundaries yet not fracture relationships or suffer other losses. I am able to help you learn to regulate your body to be able to apply the appropriate "dose" to be effective and not destructive.

Anger gets a bad rap. Others focus so much on the anger that they don’t understand the pain, triggers, and trauma that often exists just under the surface. If given the honor of working with you, I’ll not only give you tools to manage the anger, but help you get to the root cause of where it’s coming from in the first place and help it to heal.

Many times anger is the only acceptable emotion, especially for men. Uncovering the feelings, emotions and frustrations that are behind that anger can completely change the dynamic. Let's work to understand what that anger is about and heal it. Decreasing anger can completely change your relationships and increase a sense of calmness and peace in your life. It is never too late to have a happy life.

We help our clients to have greater understanding of themselves and their interactions with others to improve the quality of their relationships. We utilize mindfulness, self-exploration, and self-soothing techniques to help improve clients' emotional regulation skills. Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, EMDR or ART, Trauma-Focused CBT, and Existential Therapy are especially helpful for healing trauma and improving interpersonal interactions with others.

I often coach men on how to better regulate their emotions, including anger. I can teach you strategies from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, provide relationship insights from the Gottman Method, and help you practice calming strategies to take control back. You might have every right to be angry. But if it’s making things worse, it’s time for a change. At Lion Counseling, our mission is to help you escape the cages that hold you back and become the lion God created you to be.

Anger that is not dealt with and expressed explosively can result in damaged relationships, terminated friendships and jobs, embarrassment, guilt and even jail. If it’s held in, anger can result in heart disease, ulcers, anxiety, depression and bitterness. Anger isn’t right or wrong, it’s just an emotion. Emotion is energy in motion. You can learn how to calm yourself. I can teach you how to manage the energy of your anger. I can help you to heal from painful past event that may be fueling your present anger. This will empower you to set and hold your boundaries, communicate more effectively and face your challenges more creatively. See emdr.com for more info. and research.

Anger is an essential emotion, but ignoring the secondary feelings underlying anger can create significant problems in your life. My goal is to remove anger from the driver's seat of your life. There are several steps to this process including, understanding anger triggers and pre-triggers and developing a more comprehensive emotional vocabulary. Upon completing therapy with me, you will better understand yourself, be back in the driver's seat of your life, and communicate more effectively with those around you.