Great Couples Counseling in Broomfield, CO. Therapy to heal relationships.

Being a couple is not easy. It requires constant attention to keep a relationship together. I will help you develop the skills to strengthen your relationship using such tools as reflective listening, expressing appreciation and looking honestly at the issues causing trouble in your relationship. I will not chose sides, but will expect that both you and your partner look honestly and openly at your behavior, accept your share of the responsibility and commit to change so the relationship with be strong and enduring.

When working with couples, I use talk therapy, a family systems approach, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). Working with couples is unique and can be complex. It is important to examine each person as an individual, help them become their best self and then work on ways to help them grow together as a unit. It is to be noted that it is difficult to achieve progress with couples therapy if both parties are not fully committed to the therapy process.

It's natural for conflict and other issues to arise in a couple since you're two separate people with your own histories and upbringings coming together in relationship. The key is being able to self-regulate through difficult emotions, and communicate about what's happening effectively with your partner. When you can both stay calm, you'll be able to find new solutions to the issues that have come up in your relationship. I'm here to support you in identifying the issues causing conflict in your relationship, getting to the root of them, communicating effectively about them, and coming up with solutions that work.

When I provide couples counseling I begin with why you were attracted to each other. Once we focus on the positive, we can figure out what got lost that brought you to seek out counseling. I have helped couples in traditional and not traditional relationships. I focus on pre-marital and LGBTQ relationships. Monogamous or open relationships, whatever your preference I can offer a supportive environment to promote a positive change. Perhaps you are not struggling but are looking for a little change, I would believe I can help facilitate that change.

What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php

Are you feeling fed up with your relationship? Are you and your partner growing apart? Do you find that fighting and arguing happen more often than laughing and snuggling? Being in an unhappy romantic relationship affects your emotional and physical health and tears your family apart. But things CAN get better. You can learn skills and strategies to forgive and work together, even when things seem hopeless. Couples counseling brings you closer and makes your relationship stronger. We understand that marriage requires a lot of work, but you can have the relationship you've always wanted. Call today to schedule your free consultation. (970) 227-2770

Are you feeling lonely in your own marriage? Disrespected? Misunderstood? It doesn’t have to stay this way. Far too often, high-achieving men feel disrespected and lonely within their own marriages. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I help men and their wives to rediscover the incredible value they bring to the marriage, and help them negotiate a hopeful path forward. I will help you identify destructive patterns in your marriage and provide healthier alternatives. I’ll help you improve communication, learn to fight fair, and increase understanding and connection. While it’s not easy work, there is hope. If given the chance, I would be honored to help you fight for your marriage.