Marriage counseling that Heals in Hollister, CA. Restore Your Relationship.

Through questioning, writing and role plays I'll help you decide to stay or separate. Exercises will identify negative beliefs that foster bad attitudes, codependency, bad communication and ineffective behavior. I'll help you get the love you want.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

We want connection- a space to be vulnerable and truly seen. But emotional intimacy is risky, and that scares us, especially with a difficult history! Instead of being vulnerable, we build up walls to protect us. Let's break down the walls and build a loving connection.

I work with adults in relationships of all kinds. Whether you are dating or have been married for decades, I respect your commitment and I am here to help you learn better communication, connection, and find your path to love and support. No judgment, just compassion.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

I work with couples to help them identify relationship goals and learn better communication and problem-solving skills so they can create a relationship in which both partners feel understood, appreciated, respected, and loved.

Though we are not licensed marriage counselors, Grey Matters International, Inc. provides cutting edge brain optimization and rebalancing technology to better align the minds of partners to reduce conflict, increase hope---for the brain has the final word on change.

It is so important to find a therapist who has specialized training. I have trained in a range of approaches including Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Somatic Experiencing (SE), EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).

When entering a committed relationship we have a desire and expectation for friendship, mutual respect, love and validation. It takes work, it takes courage, it takes support and training to arrive at this ideal.

When working with couples and families I hold the space for each person in the room to provide the safety to discuss even difficult issues. I use IFS, and EMDR to deepen each individual's experiences when beneficial. My approach is based on family systems theory.

I work with couples who seem to be locked in emotional cycles that are difficult to understand and to break out of. You can improve your communication and become emotionally focused and intimate with your partner by learning to speak openly and listen non-defensively.

Family and marriage relationships need care, nurturing, and goodwill in order to successfully navigate the challenges of being in relationship. Being honest about our needs and wants is essential to being in relationship without resentments building.

Marriages can be saved with commitment to counseling and diligent work. I've helped hundreds of couples over 20 years of experience. I use a practical/spiritual approach regarding communication, marital needs, intimacy, trust, healing. Give me a call!