![Susan Purrington, Psy.D.](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/susan-purrington.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Susan Purrington, Psy.D.
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
In 92866 - Nearby to La Verne.
The general goal is to reduce conflict and increase intimacy. In the safety of therapy, and with a trained professional as a third party, you each will have the opportunity to learn about yourself in depth, in addition to gaining insights into the complex dynamics of your relationship. The increasing of knowledge, communication skills, and relational tools can combine to create the intimacy and connection that is so necessary in marriage.
![Barbara Jaurequi, MS, LMFT, MAC](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/barbara-jaurequi.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Barbara Jaurequi, MS, LMFT, MAC
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
In 91730 - Nearby to La Verne.
Your primary relationship should be a "recharging station" to recover from the stresses of everyday life. When your relationship is the SOURCE of your stress, it can be an overwhelming problem. Oftentimes, the stress leads to angry outbursts, addictive behaviors, dishonesty, and even infidelity. The good news is, that if the partners are motivated, amazing progress can be made. Our first task is to reduce tension so communication and trust can be restored. I provide objectivity in a balanced atmosphere. And trust me, over the course of my career working with couples, I've heard everything - your problems are probably more common than you think. You CAN overcome them!
![Diane Thorp, MSW, LCSW](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/diane-thorp.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Diane Thorp, MSW, LCSW
Licensed Psychotherapist
In 91106 - Nearby to La Verne.
I believe that good relationships are built on secure attachments, ones that are engaged and emotionally responsive to one another. In my experience working with couples, and research supports this idea as well, a combination of strategies that teach them to be more accepting of each other while at the same time working to change some of their assumptions and automatic behaviors are at the root of change. I see this in my private practice with partners attacking, often forgetting what brought them together in the first place; I guide them back into each other's arms, and back into a safety zone with a combination of attachment and communication techniques that have shown to be effective.
![Mark Baker, Ph.D.](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/mark-baker.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Mark Baker, Ph.D.
Clinical Psychologist
In 91107 - Nearby to La Verne.
Our staff of over 25 therapists specializes in helping couples in distress. From pre-marital counseling to couples work and even marriages that have been together for years--we are ready to help. Our staff has received training from Dr. Susan Johnson, the international expert on marriage and couples therapy and can help couples get free from patterns of fighting that you can't get out of on your own. We can teach you how to get free from the gridlock of fruitless fighting, and learn how to thrive in your relationship again.
![Ross L. Kellogg, LMFT](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/ross-l.-kellogg.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Ross L. Kellogg, LMFT
Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist
Available for Online Therapy
Couples struggling with repeated conflict, emotional injuries, and feelings of loneliness will find solace and rejuvenation in the therapy process. My approach to couples counseling is centered on healing attachment wounds and fostering a deeper connection between partners. By creating a compassionate and non-judgmental space, I guide couples in uncovering the underlying emotions that have led to the disconnection. Together, we will work to develop effective communication skills, rebuild trust, and cultivate empathy. You will experience relief from past hurts and discover new pathways to improved relational functioning, leading to a more satisfying and harmonious partnership.
![Stuart Kaplowitz, MFT](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/stuart-kaplowitz.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Stuart Kaplowitz, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist
In 91710 - Nearby to La Verne.
Couples counseling is a wonderful opportunity to truly connect. Learning new ways of bonding with our partners is much easier than you may think and I believe it is truly a must in any relationship. I don't want to force partners in but rather encourage them to see the potential that exists within your relationship. My reality over the years is that you are going to get stuck at some point. That's ok. We just need to help you through it. Individual needs cannot be sacrificed and truly do not have to be. Let's see what we can do together.
![Kevin Fleming, Ph.D.](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/kevin-fleming,-ph.d..jpg)
Couples Counselor
Kevin Fleming, Ph.D.
Coach/Change Agent/Consultant
In 92505 - Nearby to La Verne.
What are the most common couples' issues? If you are thinking "communication, conflict, sex, money, child rearing" you are correct. However, most therapists will go after the symptom on each side of the couple fence thinking that the way to effective change is by getting each party to "work" on their respective "issue". Many times the parties don’t agree but comply. Imagine if you could align the unconscious brains of a couple and stop the "working on your issues" part that has become so popular in therapy settings? Contact kevin@kevinflemingphd.com to learn how! Or call 877-606-6161. DR. FLEMING'S NEW RELATIONSHIP/COUPLES INTENSIVES. www.kevinflemingphd.com/marriage-couples-retreats.php
![Schwarz and Associates, Rebecca L Schwarz, LMFT](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/schwarz-and-associates.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Schwarz and Associates, Rebecca L Schwarz, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
In 90240 - Nearby to La Verne.
Couples come into counseling for various problems. Couples therapy can be very helpful to identify negative patterns of behavior which cause unhappiness, it also can point our strengths in the relationship which are causing a great deal of satisfaction in the relationship. I work from a Christian based Gottman model to help couples to quickly determine what is going wrong for them and help them to solve these issues and have the happy relationship they desire.
![John Warrington, Ph.D.](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/john-warrington.jpg)
Couples Counselor
John Warrington, Ph.D.
Licensed Psychologist
In 91010 - Nearby to La Verne.
Couples therapy should not be about hashing over old wounds. Getting what you want from a relationship involves good communication and active listening, tolerance and forgiveness, emotional intelligence, having common goals and working cooperatively and, like all the bets things in life, presents us with a challenge. Relationships can be hard work but the work is rewarding and life-enhancing. I love to work with couples who are committed to improving their future rather than reliving their past.
![John Quinlan, Psy.D.](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/john-quinlan.jpg)
Couples Counselor
John Quinlan, Psy.D.
Psychologist (License # PSY23794)
In 91730 - Nearby to La Verne.
Many of us can remember the frustrations, hurts, and joys experienced in a loving relationship. Often couples can become confused with the variety of emotions and complicated interpersonal interactions. A counselor can help a couple avoid the pitfalls that can destroy a relationship and help a couple to establish healthy bonding and boundaries within effective communication to enhance and maintain a healthy relationship. For those in an unhealthy relationship, counseling can help an individual understand their need for change, setting boundaries, and maintaining safety for themselves and for other family members.
![Carolyn Hudson, M.A., LMFT](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/carolyn-hudson.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Carolyn Hudson, M.A., LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
In 92835 - Nearby to La Verne.
Most couples come in seeking better communication. I will work with you to communicate effectively and in a manner that is respectful and compassionate in regards to your significant other's own story. Together we will look at your style of connecting or not connecting with one another and work to increase connection. I also work successfully with many couples who experience infidelity and are seeking to re-build their relationship. Pre-marital counseling is available for couples who are thinking of marrying or on their way to the altar.
![Verdant Oak Behavioral Health, Psy.D. and Ph.D.](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/verdant-oak-behavioral-health.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Verdant Oak Behavioral Health, Psy.D. and Ph.D.
Psychologist
In 91711 - Nearby to La Verne.
Many people can benefit from couples therapy sessions, even if their relationships do not have obvious problems. People often wait until very late in the game before seeking help, often times after one or both have already decided to end the relationship. Seeking the help of a psychologist can strengthen the behavioral and emotional bonds that keep couples together. Couples therapy changes the way that couples behave with each other. Sessions focus on improving interactions and building resilience. By focusing on the “Three C’s” of intimacy (closeness, communication, and commitment), partners learn how to achieve intimacy with their romantic partners rather than isolation
![Gary Aris, LPC, CTC](https://www.theravive.com/images/counsellors/gary-aris.jpg)
Couples Counselor
Gary Aris, LPC, CTC
Licensed Pastor Counselor, Certified Temperament Counselor
In 92807 - Nearby to La Verne.
Do you feel like you can't communicate with your partner? Do you feel mistreated? Married or not, differences still exist and can be dealt with. You're not alone! We create a custom made system that fits your life to bring the greatest results. We use a test to discover your temperament and find where the differences are. Call us now to see how we can help you repair your relationship and live happy.