Marriage counselling that Heals in Esquimalt, BC. Restore Your Relationship.

In a relationship two people get connected and then negotiate their differences in order to provide a satisfying and dynamic way to share their lives. Considering our vast differences in upbringing, values, and history it takes a lot of attention and skill to work throu

Counselling helps couples and families strengthen their relationships, solve problems and gain understanding. Communication, anger, sexual issues and blended families are just a few of the problems clients describe. You will find me supportive and easy to talk to.

Each relationship faces unique hurdles and holds unique potential for growth. By skillfully tuning into each other's internal world, learning new ways of being together and navigating conflict, we'll work to break through what may be hindering you.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Have you found that whatever you try doesn’t help, you can’t win? A family is a dynamic system requiring attention, and it is easy to miss what is needed when you are busy surviving. I bring couples and families together to clarify and learn together.

Though we are not licensed marriage counselors, Grey Matters International, Inc. provides cutting edge brain optimization and rebalancing technology to better align the minds of partners to reduce conflict, increase hope---for the brain has the final word on change.

Once you understand what's happening inside of one another you will be better able to support the ones you love, and they'll be better able to support you as well. I use Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you experience a new way of being together.

We all want connection, safety, and security in relationships. When conflict and emotional distance are more common it can seem as though there is no way to stop the fighting. Therapy can provide you the space necessary to reconnect and work on your relationship.

My focus is on developing strong communication which enable more fluent and effective dialogue between couples. We will build the necessary tools needed to overcome challenges in conflict, anger and resentment, rebuilding trust after betray, and creating intimacy.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Within a container of empathy, respect and caring, we work together to help you and your partner shift from negative to positive patterns of interaction through healing long held hurts.

There are three parts to every marriage: The couple and the individuals. All three are unique and need their own means to grow and develop. Couples counselling works best when all three are being attended to, allowing the marriage to flourish.

I began couples, families and relationship counselling through my work in private and public education systems. I can help with concerns that include: divorce, separation, parenting skills, self-harm, disordered eating, communication skills and self-regulation.

Relationships are great -- but they don't always run smoothly. In the middle of it, it's not always clear why things start to feel wrong. I help couples identify what they want, find ways to talk about difficult issues, and change how they support one another.

Using a developmental and systems approach, I support each individual in the role of being an ally to the other. I work with couples and families of all types of configurations towards respect, love, collaborative problem solving and mutual understanding.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Our most intimate relationships have the potential to bring us the greatest joy and also the greatest challenges. I help couples listen and communicate better, using practical evidence based tools that enhance trust and connection.

Infidelity recovery is one of my specialties. I have provided counselling to couples recovering from an affair. I also support those recovering from a past relationship and wanting to move on in their lives.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Each person in a relationship is an individual. By focusing on our own self-development, we can best learn how to grow together. I provide support for communication, sexuality and intimacy, relationship patterns and dynamics, and healing past wounds.

We have counsellors who work with couples using trauma-informed approaches, cognitive behavioral therapy, emotionally focused therapy, sex therapy and the Gottman Method. Take a look at Kayla, Kathryn, Shauna, Bob and Andee's profiles to find the right fit!

You want to save your relationship! You've tried hard, yet you've run out of ideas. I believe in results focussed relationship skills conveyed through understanding & a deeper connection. What I offer? My experience as a therapist (over 20 yrs) & husband (of 30 yrs).

Although I primarily focus on working with youth and young adults, I also offer family therapy, support through separation and divorce, and parent coaching.

I assist couples to be more authentic, to feel closer and to develop true intimacy by increasing their sense of self. Through greater differentiation and connection, we are able to realize the relationship we always imagined.

Relationships take work. We long for deep connection and yet often don’t know how; love so often gets buried in untold stories, repressed needs, and personal insecurities. I provide a safe space for partners to learn how to love and honour each other better.