Marriage counselling that Heals in Esquimalt, BC. Restore Your Relationship.

Our most intimate relationships have the potential to bring us the greatest joy and also the greatest challenges. I help couples listen and communicate better, using practical evidence based tools that enhance trust and connection.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of healing and restoration. Let's get started.

Relationships are great -- but they don't always run smoothly. In the middle of it, it's not always clear why things start to feel wrong. I help couples identify what they want, find ways to talk about difficult issues, and change how they support one another.

Once you understand what's happening inside of one another you will be better able to support the ones you love, and they'll be better able to support you as well. I use Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you experience a new way of being together.

Each relationship faces unique hurdles and holds unique potential for growth. By skillfully tuning into each other's internal world, learning new ways of being together and navigating conflict, we'll work to break through what may be hindering you.

Have you found that whatever you try doesn’t help, you can’t win? A family is a dynamic system requiring attention, and it is easy to miss what is needed when you are busy surviving. I bring couples and families together to clarify and learn together.

We all want connection, safety, and security in relationships. When conflict and emotional distance are more common it can seem as though there is no way to stop the fighting. Therapy can provide you the space necessary to reconnect and work on your relationship.

I assist couples to be more authentic, to feel closer and to develop true intimacy by increasing their sense of self. Through greater differentiation and connection, we are able to realize the relationship we always imagined.

Therapy can assist you to create the relationship you desire, or rediscover the bond you once had with your partner. Emotionally-focused therapy can get you the results you're looking for. Take that first step - your happiness is worth it.

Although I primarily focus on working with youth and young adults, I also offer family therapy, support through separation and divorce, and parent coaching.

We have counsellors who work with couples using trauma-informed approaches, cognitive behavioral therapy, emotionally focused therapy, sex therapy and the Gottman Method. Take a look at Kayla, Kathryn, Shauna, Bob and Andee's profiles to find the right fit!

Shelley is an advanced clinician with Imago Relationships International, since 1995. Teaching and coaching skills that will create healthy, loving relationships, where couples can experience safety, love, compassion and intimacy is her passion and gift.

There are three parts to every marriage: The couple and the individuals. All three are unique and need their own means to grow and develop. Couples counselling works best when all three are being attended to, allowing the marriage to flourish.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Each person in a relationship is an individual. By focusing on our own self-development, we can best learn how to grow together. I provide support for communication, sexuality and intimacy, relationship patterns and dynamics, and healing past wounds.

A healthy relationship takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

Within a container of empathy, respect and caring, we work together to help you and your partner shift from negative to positive patterns of interaction through healing long held hurts.

In a relationship two people get connected and then negotiate their differences in order to provide a satisfying and dynamic way to share their lives. Considering our vast differences in upbringing, values, and history it takes a lot of attention and skill to work throu

Counselling helps couples and families strengthen their relationships, solve problems and gain understanding. Communication, anger, sexual issues and blended families are just a few of the problems clients describe. You will find me supportive and easy to talk to.

A healthy marriage takes trust, safety, intimacy and connection. I am skilled at supporting couples learn to effectively communicate their needs, wants and feelings. Communication is key.

When entering a committed relationship we have a desire and expectation for friendship, mutual respect, love and validation. It takes work, it takes courage, it takes support and training to arrive at this ideal.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.

A healthy marriage takes work. Therapy will reach the heart of the issues and begin the process of restoration. Let's get started.