Anger Management and Counselling in Sun Peaks, BC.

All of us have been angry at times, and know that this doesn't feel very good. Using an approach of CBT/DBT/mindfulness combination, I help you to explore the driving forces behind what's getting you angry and keeping you angry. Exploring how this is impacting interpersonal relationships and how to enhance communication and set boundaries can be a start to regaining some control over your anger.

Ferne uses cognitive therapy to help individuals to learn how to lessen their anger and to learn new skills to express themselves their emotions in a healthy way. She also help individuals to learn how to communicate more positively. Ferne also helps individuals use mindful practices to help with self regulation and achieve success. Ferne believes under anger there is trauma. Ferne provides an environment where the client examine trauma triggers that contribute to their anger. Ferne's mental background also helps her to determine any underlying factors such depression and untreated ADHD that may contribute to anger issues

Tammie has had great experience and results working with both male and female learn how to channel their anger or harmful, hurtful emotions into a healthy more satisfying outcome. Court mandated clients, Doctor's referrals or personal referrals are accepted. Tammie has a more hands on approach and uses Cognitive Behavioural, Reality Theory and Solution Focused therapies with clients. Happy individuals who learn emotional managemnt techniques have healthier and happier relationships with partners, spouses, friends, children, family and workplace.

If a client comes to me with anger management, I would approach them with curiosity and examine the root cause of the anger. Depending on the source of the anger, I would determine what type of approach to use. For example if the anger was caused by a specific event, if the client agrees, we would explore that specific event in detail, as well as practical strategies to manage the existing anger. Approaches I use are Alderian therapy or EFT for treatment.

Anger is a normal and healthy emotion that needs to occur in a controlled manner. Yes, we all get mad but it is the action and words that need special attention. When it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problems. These problems occur at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life. I will help you create strategies and goals to mange your anger.

Anger can be a powerful and sometimes overwhelming emotion, but with the right tools, it can be transformed into a source of insight and positive change. In anger management counseling, clients learn to identify triggers, understand the root causes of their anger, and develop healthy ways to express and manage it. My approach focuses on building emotional awareness, enhancing communication skills, and fostering self-control, enabling clients to navigate challenges more calmly and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

In my anger management therapy, I blend Internal Family Systems (IFS), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness, and Trauma-Informed Care to help individuals understand, control, and transform their anger. Through IFS, we explore the internal emotional landscape, recognizing various 'parts' that contribute to anger, while EMDR helps in processing and reducing the impact of past traumas. Mindfulness techniques develop self-awareness and emotional regulation. I also focus on identifying triggers and underlying emotions, teaching skills like relaxation methods, effective communication, and problem-solving. This comprehensive approach fosters emotional regulation, impro

The cost of Anger is enormous! It affects not only everyone around you, but also affects your own health. If you are looking for a counsellor to help you with anger management, you probably already know this. If you have grown tired of the emotional, physical and financial toll that anger takes, you have come to the right person. I can help you learn the skills that you need to understand your anger and to regulate it so that you can meet your needs more effectively. You will also learn what it takes to protect and rebuild relationships that have been damaged through venting your anger. If you are ready to take responsibility for making changes for the better in your life, contact me.

Anger is an emotion that can dominate how we automatically react to situations and frustrations when it feels we are not in control. Sometimes anger is overwhelming for the person feeling the anger and for the others around them and can negatively impact relationships and life goals. I explore with clients the root of the anger and then collaboratively develop strategies and alternative intentional approaches to improve effective emotional processing.

It sucks to be angry and loose control of our emotions. Anger can have a devastating impact on the people we love the most. I will support you in addressing the emotions, trauma and pain underneath anger and learn to identify your triggers and patterns. I will teach you tools to address your stress and help you learn to better deal with your emotions. Learning to communicate our needs in a way that will be received is also a part of how I address anger issues.

Anger and violence are wildly misunderstood issues. I believe that it is important to explore the context in which the anger or violence occurs. For example, does it happen at home, or at work, or in public? Who is impacted by the anger or violence? How do the individuals who are impacted resist and respond to the anger/violence? Through counselling we will explore the context of the interactions. Once we understand the context (who is doing what to who?) I will respectfully invite responsibility taking and strategies for more helpful communication and responses.

My approach is to use a step-by-step process that follows an evidence based approach: goal setting; self awareness; cognitive reframing; behavioural modification; review of progress. Fundamental to the work is a good therapeutic relationship. That is, we have the collaboration and trust to combine your knowledge of yourself and your situation and my skills and knowledge of the clinical issues to make change happen.

Anger often stems from feeling so many emotions all at once. You lose a sense of control. You go from 0 to 100 in a blink of an eye. By getting angry you’re attempting to regain control that’s presumed lost. But instead, you’re full of guilt and shame. Feeling angry and reacting in anger, is simply exhausting. I’ll help you learn how to regain control, in a healthy way.